Paul has made some interesting observations about lessons he’s learned in his life.
- The 80/20 rule.
- Parkinson’s Law.
- Batching.
- First, give value. Then, get value. Not the other way around.
- Be proactive. Not reactive.
- Mistakes and failures are good.
- Don’t beat yourself up.
- Your attitude changes your reality.
- Don’t compare yourself to others.
- 80-90% of what you fear will never really come into reality.
- Don’t take things too seriously.
- Write everything down.
- There are opportunities in just about every experience.
In addition to his 13 ideas and the fact that I’m uneasy about having 13 on the list, here are 2 of mine: that I try to use every day.
14: Smiles are infectious. Spread them. When you’re happy, you smile, and when you smile, you are happy. (nod to Anand here)
15: Believe in yourself – because if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will.
What’s your best lesson you’ve learned?…
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Always give people a way out, if you’re having a difficult conversation, allow them to leave with their self-esteem intact. A lady who used to be an inspector for farming and fisheries but before changing to education, told me this – I think its great !